Lesson A

Influential Others; Relationship you have with your parents and/or children

Being the Parent is hard.  Being a child is hard, too!  Being Human can be a challenge.  if it were easy we would not have chosen this school of hard knocks to learn about both Love and Forgiveness.  here is a mystical truth.  You chose your parents and your kids chose you.  We all made these choices knowing the whole story.  Like a librarian who has read every book in the library and was never been able to leave we chose our favourite story, called it our timeline and incarnated here.  We know they were incompetent, we knew their FEAR stories were the expression of our trigger energy and we knew this was not going to be easy to have to follow the storyline without remembering the outcome.  But we chose it anyway! And, so did our children.

In this lesson we reconnect with the idea that we heal the past pains from right here and right now in the present moment by knowing that we are all doing the best that we can from our level of conscious awareness.  Yes, some of us are still in unconscious incompetence but there is nothing to do but mind our own business, show love and kindness and learn to forgive.  Be clear I am saying FORGIVE – this does not mean that some was or wasn’t acceptable; it means that through releasing the hold it has on you that you are no longer caring it as a burden.

How are you doing this work honestly; can you forgive your parents for their unconscious incompetence? Can you forgive yourself for yours?

~ Namaste

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